Month: April 2019

New Mexico, the Muse: Finding Creative Freedom in the Desert

New Mexico, the Muse: Finding Creative Freedom in the Desert

“Don’t bend; don’t water it down; don’t try to make it logical; don’t edit your own soul according to the fashion. Rather, follow your most intense obsessions mercilessly.”

Anne Rice, about Franz Kafka

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My heart ached for New Mexico this weekend.  There’s a heartsickness I experience over that land like I’ve never experienced before. It’s what I feel when I’m away from my husband.  It’s what I feel when I miss my family.  It’s a feeling that’s hard to explain, but I can only describe as a grieving, deep-seated longing. 

Since we’ve been back from New Mexico, the longing comes and goes.  It doesn’t seem like it’s ever fully gone – but it just settles beneath the surface of the day-to-day demands.  Life carries on as usual, but there’s a new dimension – a new thread – that has been woven into our existence. 

I feel like I’ve been constantly processing the impact of our trip for months now.  When we got home, we were met repeatedly with the question, “How was your trip?” and I found myself unable to put our experience into words.  It wasn’t good or great or wonderful or exciting.  It was… something else altogether. Continue reading “New Mexico, the Muse: Finding Creative Freedom in the Desert”

Becoming the Writer: Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs and Moving Toward Purpose

Becoming the Writer: Overcoming Self-Limiting Beliefs and Moving Toward Purpose

“Whatever we plant in our subconscious mind and nourish with repetition and emotion will one day become a reality.” – Earl Nightingale

I can barely remember a time before the word “writer” was a part of my identity.  I was watching Dick Van Dyke reruns on Nick at Nite when I was 6, and I realized that I wanted to be a writer – a “head writer” actually. 

So, in school, when the teacher asked us the typical “What do you want to be when you grow up?” question, I responded proudly, “A Head Writer!”  I’m fairly certain I was beaming.  To my surprise, I was met with blank stares from both teacher and classmates. 

“A what?? A head waiter?”  This was obviously ridiculous – what was a head waiter anyway? 

“No! A head WRITER.”  Still – only blank stares. 

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